Good Things Need to be Maintained

I have been talking a lot about mental health and illnesses on my platforms. For those who do not know, I have depression and Borderline Personality Disorder. I have been going to therapy for a while now, and I am pretty stable. I haven’t had a depressive episode in a long time. I’ve been feeling healthy and happy. Now the focus is on maintaining my good mental health. Maintenance is very important part of the process having good mental health, even for those who don’t have a mental illness. Read my the latest post on my blog to go in depth on the importance of maintaining your healthy mental health. Thankyou for this opportunity Plumbers Rockhampton!

By: Justin Hope

People spend thousands on home renovations. They splash out on shiny new sinks, redo the showers, and turn a tired old bathroom into something that looks amazing. Good plumbing and renovations like this can last years… but only when it is maintained. When things get neglected, stuff eventually breaks down. As a plumbing blog writer, I want to show you how, like our plumbing, we need to look after our mental health. Most of us know how to maintain the things we own. We’ve paid good money for them and don’t want them falling apart. But too often, that idea of maintenance stops at our stuff. In reality, it extends to you. It extends to your mental health. Good things don’t just last on their own. They need to be sustained.

What Happens When We Don’t Maintain Things?
Ignore your plumbing for long enough and you’ll see the results. Rainwater tanks that once gave clean water can now become a breeding ground for mosquitoes and bacteria. The toilet can get blocked. And the drain can start making weird smells and sounds. When things are ignored, they become chaotic. It doesn’t happen all at once. It creeps up. Then suddenly, you’re left with a mess so bad the only solution is to call a professional. If we understand that we should protect our plumbing, how much more should we protect our
minds? There are many things that we know we should be doing. Exercise, taking breaks, listening to music, spending time in peace, and addressing excessive stress. However, all too easily, these habits can fall away. And then, too, can things start to get out of hand. We find ourselves more anxious, stressed, and burnt out. And when it gets too much, the smartest thing we can do is call in a professional, like a therapist, to help set things straight.
Life is a juggling act. But not all the balls are the same. Some are rubber and can bounce if dropped. Others are glass and if you drop them, they shatter. Your health belongs firmly in the “glass” category.

The Value of Preventive Maintenance
In plumbing, cleaning filters, doing inspections, and checking tanks is very important. It’s about addressing any problems right as they emerge, or before they even start. That way, it’s a lot easier for everyone, and many headaches can be saved. The goal of this is to prevent the homeowner from having to make an emergency plumbing call. The same principle applies to us. Preventing stress from piling up is always easier than fixing a breakdown. Ensure the ‘health pillars’ on which you stand are steady. Exercise, for example, is like flushing your system. It keeps things moving, clears out the tension, and gives you resilience to handle pressure before it clogs you up. Preventing something like excessive stress is always better than waiting for it to get out of hand.

Spotting Early Signs
Very few things collapse as soon as they are neglected. Usually, it takes some time to slowly fall apart. It is more like a gradual descent into chaos rather than one big fall. For pipes, if you throw grease down the sink, over time, it will accumulate in the pipes and restrict the water flow. With repeated use, you’ll notice the drain draining slower and weird sounds coming from it. These are the warning signs. If the homeowner ignores these, then the drain will become
completely blocked. Our lives are surprisingly similar to plumbing systems. Once we take our foot off the pedal, we can gradually descend into chaos.
And that’s kind of a good thing. Having it happen gradually means you can still progress and save yourself even if you have made a mistake. Just imagine if after every time you skipped the gym, you started from square-one. However, the problem with this is that we can get complacent with the way things are. Even if things aren’t good, we can say ‘she’ll be right’. We can ignore the warning signs, because we might not crack just yet. But this is never recommended. In mental health, you should look out for signs of irritability, constant tiredness, always feeling stressed or anxious, withdrawing from people, and a loss of motivation. These are like the little warning signs your body gives that it might need some help.

Building a Maintenance Plan
When you have to do maintenance checks for the plumbing, you can’t just do it when you feel like it. You have to set up a routine for every few months to do some inspections and cleans. This makes it much harder for problems to remain unaddressed or unseen. In terms of mental health, you also need to establish some sort of routine for yourself. You can decide to go to the gym 3 days per week. You can decide to take a break and read a book to relax every night. You can get in the habit of listening to relaxing music. For me, these are the habits that I’ve developed to maintain my mental health. And if your mental plumbing is about to burst, you can always call the professionals to help you
out.

Conclusion
A plumbing system looked after lasts for decades and gives everything peace of mind. But good things don’t last by accident. They last because you look after them. And for you, you are worth being looked after. So keep an eye on the little things. Focus on maintaining good habits for your health. A little bit of rest, and exercise can go a long way. Otherwise, like plumbing, you might just burst.

About the Author

Justin Hope runs the website Plumbers Rockhampton. Plumbers Rockhampton is dedicated to providing quality plumbing solutions to local problems in Queensland, Australia. They provide services for a variety of plumbing needs, ranging from renovations to commercial plumbing.

Importance of Reaching Out for Help with Mental Illness: Guest Post

by Laiba Noor

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There was a time in my life when I thought I had to deal with everything alone. I believed asking for help was a sign of weakness. I smiled in front of everyone, said “I’m fine” when I wasn’t, and kept pushing through the days with a heavy heart and a tired mind.

But the truth is, mental illness doesn’t go away by pretending it doesn’t exist.  Additionally, attempting to carry it all alone only makes the weight appear to be heavier. 

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

Mental illness can make you feel isolated, like you’re the only one struggling while the world keeps spinning. But you’re not alone, even if it feels like it sometimes. Reaching out for help isn’t a sign of defeat, it’s a sign of courage. It indicates that you have a strong desire to heal yourself. Whether it’s depression, anxiety, PTSD, bipolar disorder, or anything in between, talking to someone, seeking support, and getting the help you need can be life-changing.

Why Asking for Help Matters

When you reach out, you open the door to understanding, support, and real healing. Mental illness is not a personal failure. It’s not your fault. When we hurt our minds, we ought to get help, just as we do when we break a bone. Here’s what asking for help can do:

Eliminate the silence in which mental illness thrives. When everything seems hazy, offer clarity. Connect yourself to people who understand and can guide you. Begin the journey to better mental health and inner peace.

Support Can Come in Many Forms 

You don’t always have to speak to a therapist right away (though that’s a great option). Support can come from:

• A trusted friend or family member.

• An online or offline support group.

• Mental health hotlines or helplines.

• Professional counselors or psychologists

The first step is always the hardest, but once you take it, the road begins to clear bit by bit.

What Help Looked Like for Me

For me, help came in a message. I reached out to someone close and said, “I’m not okay.” That moment changed everything. I wasn’t judged. I was heard. That was the beginning of my healing. And from there, I slowly started to find strength again.

Sometimes, all it takes is a conversation. Therapy or medication are other options. But no matter what it looks like getting help works.

It’s Okay to Not Be Okay 

Please know, if you are reading this and struggling in silence: You won’t be alone. You are not damaged. You are not weak for requiring assistance. Reaching out may feel scary, but it’s the first step toward light, peace, and healing. You deserve that.

If you or someone you know is struggling, please talk to someone. Help is always available. You are not a burden. You are loved.  💙

Meet the Author:

This beautiful piece was written by Laiba Noor. Laiba is a hardworking Content Creator, Social Media Manager and Influencer Marketer who lives in Pakistan. If you enjoyed this post and would like to work with Laiba, you can reach her on LinkedIn or Instagram

100 posts! Let’s Celebrate!

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I just received a notification from WordPress that said I’ve published over 100 posts on the platform! Yay me! But seriously, this is wonderful. One of my fears when I started blogging was that I would run of ideas to write. Here I am nearly six years and 100 posts later, and I’m still going. I started this blog because I believe everyone has an interesting and important story to tell, and I wanted to share mine. 

Sharing my story and experiences has been a wonderful journey so far. I’ve talked a lot about my experience with a genetic disorder called Turner syndrome on my blog. For years after I was diagnosed as a teenager, I kept my condition to myself, only sharing it with a very select few people. As I grew older, I started advocating for myself, and I needed people to understand what my day to day life is like as a woman with Turner syndrome. This inspired me to share my story. One of my first blog posts was “Imperfectly Perfect: Life with Turner Syndrome”. The truth is, I actually wrote this blog post for a major magazine. I submitted it, but never heard back from any representative from the magazine company. That’s when I decided to create my own platform. That’s how Life with Charli came about! I was nervous about starting a blog, but I realized that if I wanted more awareness on Turner syndrome, I needed to be comfortable with sharing my story. 

I have also talked a lot about dealing with mental illness on my blog. I have mentioned many times on my blog that was hesitant to start therapy and medication for my mental illness. To be honest, even up to the time I started my blog, I was still hesitant. However, I noticed a lot of other bloggers boldly talking about mental illness with no shame. Then, one day, I asked on one of X, then Twitter, if anyone would like to share their story on my blog. 

I was so happy when I got a response from a fellow writer Lesley Skinner. When Lesley told me that she wanted to write about mental illness, I gladly collaborated with her and published “Christianity and Mental Health”.  Around that time, a fellow blogger, Nadine, shouted me out as a fellow mental health advocate. 

I was shocked, because I didn’t see myself as one. However, I happily accepted the praise. It wasn’t really my intention to focus on mental health, but looking back, that was a topic I have been talking about from my very first post “This is Life: Your Purpose, Your gift”, which focused on self love. Other early posts that followed also focused on mental health, like “Judgements and Assumptions”, which focused on social anxiety. I just did not realize how connected to mental health those posts were. I was just writing my experience. Amazingly, people were listening responding so positively to what I had to say. Little did my fellow bloggers know, though, that I was listening to them too. I decided to reach out for help with my mental illness like so many of my fellow bloggers, and was officially diagnosed with depression and borderline personality disorder. 

It felt so good to finally be getting help. I’m very grateful to the bloggers who have had an influence on my mental health and blogging journey. With the beautiful feedback I have been receiving throughout my time blogging, I know my story has reached others as well. For instance, a beautiful soul took the time to send this email to me:

A very warm thankyou to you my friend, and to all those who have been supporting me through all this time. If you are sharing your story online like me, know that people are watching and listening. You are making an impact on someone’s life. Keep sharing your story. 

Thankyou for visiting and helping me celebrate 100 published posts. Here’s to 100 more.

Must Read Post on Signs of Mental Illness

I found the blog post above through Facebook! It really is a gem, and I relate to it so much! For a very long time I was going through depression and thought it was normal, just how I was. I was very wrong. It is not normal, and I needed help badly. Take a look at the above post, and if you feel like you relate to it, please know it is ok to seek out help.

Fighting Mental Illness Stigma: Still Further to Go

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I recently read in the news that a television personality named John Brenkus passed away by suicide on May 31st of this year. He was 54 years old. He was a well known figure in the sports world. I have talked about my journey with mental illness many times on here on my blog. One of the hardest but best decisions I’ve ever made was seeking help. I have been suffering from mental illness from the time I was a child. Stigma kept me from reaching out for help for a very long time. As I read through the comments on the article about John Brenkus’s passing, I realized that even though we have come a long way with fighting stigma on mental illness we still have a long way to go. 

Many of the comments fit into two groups. The first group are those who downplayed the seriousness depression, such as the examples below: 

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The second was those who thought suicide is a cowardly or selfish act, such as those below:

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However, I did find comments that showed understanding and compassion:

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Depression is a serious mental illness, and someone who loses his or her battle with the illness was not weak or a coward. As someone who is dealing with depression myself, I can say it is not an easy condition to live with, and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. It’s hard to understand unless one is actually dealing with the illness his or herself, but compassion is not hard. I have had the pleasure of meeting many wonderful people online during my time as a blogger, but it is the truth that the internet can also bring out the ugly side side of humanity. The way to fight to fight the stigma of mental illness is through compassion. Compassion leads us to seeing each other as fellow human being worthy of love and understanding. So let’s try to be more loving and compassionate. 

For those of you who are struggling with mental illness, please reach out for help if you have not done so already. If you are or someone you know is ever in a crisis, please reach out to your country’s crisis hotline. The hotline in the United States, where I, live is 988.

Thankyou for reading, and I’ll see guys in the next post! 

Be informed about your psychiatric medications

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Hi all! Welcome back to my blog! As some of you may know, I deal with mental illness. I have depression and borderline personality disorder. For a long time, I was hesitant to reach out for help with my mental health, but I finally starting going to therapy in 2019. Even though I decided to get help with my mental health, I was still very hesitant to take medication. I’m usually hesitant about taking new medication, but I was even more reluctant to take psychiatric medication. I am now on an antidepressant and an antipsychotic. According to the United States Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 16.5 percent of American adults were taking medication for mental illness in 2020. A combination of therapy and medication is the most effective way to manage mental illness

The different types of psychiatric medications are antidepressants, anti-anxiety medications, stimulants, antipsychotics, and mood stabilizers. Antidepressants are mainly used to treat depression, although they can also be used to treat anxiety, pain, and insomnia as well. Anti-anxiety medications are used to treat anxiety, although antidepressants can also be used for anxiety and are usually prescribed initially before anti-anxiety medication. Stimulants are used to treat Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). It can also treat narcolepsy. Stimulants can improve alertness and focus. Antipsychotics are used to treat psychosis. Conditions that involve psychosis are bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and severe psychotic depression. Mood stabilizers are often used to treat bipolar disorder, but can be used to help with mood regulation in other mental illnesses as well. Psychiatric medication can be very helpful, but they have their cons as well. This is why there are those who warn against taking psychiatric medication, including members of the British royal family. 

Thomas Kingston, a member of the British royal family through marriage, died by suicide in February last year in 2024. His family was left devastated, and are now advocating for better communication between doctors and patients about the serious side effects of psychiatric medications. The coroner who handled looking into the cause of Mr. Kingston’s death also warned about the side effects of psychiatric medications. Psychiatric medications do have some serious side effects. With antidepressants, some side effects are upset stomach, headache, or sexual dysfunction. In young people under the age of 25, antidepressants can cause suicidal thoughts. Some children on stimulants feel unlike their usual selves. Antipsychotics can cause stroke or death in older adults. Older first generation antipsychotics, often called typical antipsychotics, can lead a condition called Tardive dyskinesia, which is when muscles in the body move uncontrollably. People on newer generation antipsychotics, or atypical antipsychotics, generally need to have their weight, glucose levels, and lipid levels monitored by their doctor. One very commonly used mood stabilizer is lithium. Those who take lithium need to have their lithium levels routinely checked, as overdosing on lithium can cause serious side effects. Also, stopping any psychiatric medication abruptly can lead to withdrawal symptoms. Hopefully, Mr. Thomas Kingston was informed about the side effects of the particular medication he was prescribed.

One of the medications Kingston was at first prescribed was sertraline. After returning to his doctor and reporting that the medication was not working, he was put on citalopram. At the time of his death, Kingston had stopped taking the antidepressants. As mentioned previously, stopping psychiatric medication can lead to withdrawal symptoms. It is very imperative that mental health professionals are transparent about the side effects of psychiatric drugs, but it is also very important that patients closely follow the instructions of the doctor.

Making the choice of whether or not to take psychiatric medication is a serious decision to make. It is important to know that everyone’s body reacts differently to medication. Some people may suffer bad side effects. However, there are many people who experience minimal side effects or none at all and find psychiatric medications to be life saving. Whether or not a person should take medication or not doesn’t have an easy answer. However, being informed can make the decision to take medication and dealing with medication easier.

My Mental Health journey so far and looking forward in 2025

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Hello everyone! Well guys, we are at the beginning of a new year again! As I was thinking about what I wanted to post next on my blog, I began thinking about how far I have come on my journey with working on my mental health. I started working on my mental health in 2020. I started from being afraid of going to therapy to firmly advocating for it. I went from being against psychiatric medication to believing in their effectiveness.

My journey has not been easy, and I have had a few depressive episodes and break downs. Last year though, I am proud to say that I have not had any depressive episodes or breakdowns. I’ve been feeling more confident than I’ve ever felt before. I’m doing so well with my mental health that I am even having less therapy sessions. At the beginning of my mental health journey, I was going to therapy 3 times a week. That’s how bad my mental health was. Now I’m seeing a therapist once every two weeks. My mental health is not perfect, but I feel so different than I felt before starting my mental health journey. I never thought I would reach to a point where I would be able to say I truly loved myself. I have never felt better. I am very much looking forward to another year of mental stability. 

Guest Post – Don’t be Ashamed of your Mental Health Journey

Hello everyone! Last time, I posted a guest post by fellow blogger Rae from Second Chances. I met Rae on Facebook and I loved her inspirational content! I just had to get in touch! She talks about mental illness on her blog like I do, and I was so happy when she agreed to let me share her powerful story on my blog! What an honor! And now she’s sharing my story with mental illness on her blog! To read my story click over to Rae’s blog here. Be sure to also checkout other posts on her blog. There you will find powerful stories on dealing with addiction and domestic violence. Rae shares these stories to encourage those dealing with these issues to seek help. 

Depression and Anxiety: The Start of a Recovery Journey

Hi everyone! 

For those who might not know, May is mental awareness health month! It just so happens that I’ve been working on taking care of my mental health during the month, which is why I’ve been a little inactive lately. I’ve recently met an awesome mental health blogger, Chaz from Mental Health 360! She kindly offered to let me write a guest post for her blog, which is about my struggles with my mental health! I’ve been sharing a little about my mental health struggles on my blog, and this latest post gives a more in depth look at my journey over the years! Click here to give the post a read! While you’re there, take a look around Caz’s blog! She’s a retired mental health professional, so you will find a lot of wonderful resources there! You can learn a lot from her blog! 

Remember that mental illness is nothing to be ashamed of. Take care of each other and yourselves.

Until next time,

– Charli


https://mentalhealth360.uk/my-depression-and-anxiety/

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